You have plus/minus 75euros left, a 9600gt costs a little over 100$ now, maybe you could find an extra credit:S, but a 8600gt cost 70 to 80$, although it is a slower card, you still can play it on medium i guess:P
hmm about the motherboard
i just found these two:
GIGABYTE GA-E7AUM-DS2H-it comes with a NVIDIA GeForce 9400
$134.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx...N82E16813128363
ASUS P5N7A-VM LGA 775-it come with a NVIDIA GeForce 9300
$119.99
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx...N82E16813131348
so should i stick with my old plan or buy one of these and wait till i have some money to buy a new graphics card?
or is there any cheaper video card that you can advice me with
Personaly, i think you should stick with your first plan, buy a 8600gt, its way better,than 9300 and 9400series, and its integrated:P so thats always suckish