When I finally do tell him, that is what I planned on saying. "If you can't accept it, then it was good being friends while it lasted".. Or something like that.
I try to drop hints. But they don't pick up... I guess I have to try harder at that.
If you're talking about if I seem straight or not (if thats what you meant by macho and effeminate), I think its obvious I'm gay.. But they still haven't picked up on it.
One time my mom said something to me like "You like girls, don't you?".. I just kind of mumbled "yeah".. I should have said no and told her then. But, it seems like a good idea, but when the moment comes I just can't bring myself to do it.
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I'm also afraid of what my other family members will think. All my uncles are homophobes, so is my grandma and probably all my aunts too..
I think one of my sisters already knows, but I didn't confront her about it because I'm scared that she might not actually know.. I think I might tell her first anyway. She has a lot of gay friends, I don't know how she'll take her brother being gay though..