Connor Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 Well, I'm a very nervous person, I'm anxious and paranoid 24/7. I know this seems a little direct, but how do I make myself better? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA Don Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 Umm... Stop being nervous? Don't be so afraid of people, learn to love them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 25, 2008 Author Share Posted January 25, 2008 (edited) It's a lot harder than you think really, I start shaking when people I don't know look at me. And when people I don't know start talking to me, I just like, freeze. I'm talking about like, methods of making myself less nervous when the time comes, and stuff like that. If you know what I mean. Edited January 25, 2008 by Psycho Connor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA Don Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 Say hello, be friendly toward them. Ask if they want anything or need help with something. When people I don't know look at me, I'm like "who are you?" in my head. Then I just greet them and go upstairs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azn Posted January 26, 2008 Share Posted January 26, 2008 Well, share your interests with others directly. You'll know when you've found the right person to talk to when you can just talk talk and talk for several hours at a time. I know though, I hate it when people just stare at me in interest or single me out from the rest... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 Meh, I kinda made some friends... They stick up for me and stuff, and come and talk to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Umm... Stop being nervous? Don't be so afraid of people, learn to love them. You have no idea how hard it is, I'm still like this, but I learned to manage it a little better, I have a friend in my new school that's helping me have less social anxiety. She's helping a lot so far, I think Connor just needs a few friends to walk around with and etc. I used to hate people, when I met her I learned not everybody sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA Don Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Give it some time and you'll both have a few friends and you won't be so nervous. You just have to believe you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 It's not just that I don't really have many friends, but like, people seem to just want to make me depressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Yep, that's called paranoid. Talk to me on MSN about it if you want, this isn't really a suitable therapeutic environment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA Don Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Just ignore them and get on with your life. (No pyscho stuff) . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Haha, GTA Don seriously you need to go through this shit to figure out what he's talking about. It's REALLY bad, believe me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas. Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 It's not just that I don't really have many friends, but like, people seem to just want to make me depressed. Just be cool around people and stick up for yourself. The more fights you win (If you fight) the better you will gain friends. I was kinda at this stage before moving into High School. Just relax a bit now. Start with a few and move up, also people at your stage hate Smart People (Brainy), so try to act Dumber or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 It's not really as easy as that. You seem to think it's just a little bit of worry? It's more like, 5000 things popping into your head every time you suspect something bad will happen. Feeling like people are watching me all the time, hearing things that aren't really there, like, screaming, knocking and opening of doors that aren't really being opened. Feeling like everybody is against me, that when people talk to me, I wonder what they will say, everything pops into my head at once and it makes me physically sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas. Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Hallucination, It happens. I can get scared at school. I have laughs everyone does. I get nervous when it comes to class talks etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA Don Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 Maybe you should see a therapist, both of you. I read in a book, no one liked this boy, so he went to a therapist and things gradually got better for him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red_91 Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 Man, you need some real help, I think you could have mental problems, not trying to be offensive in any way at all, but are you autistic or something? You also need to think before you talk. I have read some of your posts laughing at peoples death, which is just not right. I would suggest talking to a Phychologist/consillor/therapist. You cant go on like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Maybe you should see a therapist, both of you. I read in a book, no one liked this boy, so he went to a therapist and things gradually got better for him. Thanks for the advice. Man, you need some real help, I think you could have mental problems, not trying to be offensive in any way at all, but are you autistic or something? You also need to think before you talk. I have read some of your posts laughing at peoples death, which is just not right.I would suggest talking to a Phychologist/consillor/therapist. You cant go on like this. I hope you don't mean are you autistic as an insult, seriously. I'm sure Connor appreciates all the professional advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 Meh, I'm a little autistic. I'm kind of off school today, typing up everything what bullies say and do to me at school. So I can hand it in, and have them fucked. It'd be nice if they just died, then I'd get the pleasure of pissing all over their graves every night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red_91 Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 ^ Exactly, you cant wish death on a person just becasue they bully you. Rem I wasn't being offensive in saying Connor could be autistic. I just thought he might have it for some reason. Anyway other than that, I would suggest not thinking too much about things, start following your local team (this can help to take your mind off things) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 ^Exactly, you cant wish death on a person just becasue they bully you. Rem I wasn't being offensive in saying Connor could be autistic. I just thought he might have it for some reason. Anyway other than that, I would suggest not thinking too much about things, start following your local team (this can help to take your mind off things) I do though. Wish they'd all just fucking die. Or even better, have them paralyzed. But like, yea, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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