Huckleberry Pie Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 OK, so a member in my forum, hucklover6, who's also a member here, seems to be unstable and yells like mad at somebody. In this thread, my fellow forum mates discussed about the possibility of her having bipolar disorder; they are usually separated by periods of "normal" mood, but in some individuals, depression and mania may rapidly alternate, known as rapid cycling. I talked to her via IM occasionally, and there are times that she goes unstable and gets mad at me. She got banned in the forums for being rude, but my mates insisted that we give her a chance. What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hansui Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 just let her if in case she had that kind of disorder, since she think somewhat different from us all you have to do is to understand her but always remind her about the forum rules yeah, its hard to deal with people with that kind of illness, that is very sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Just give a punishment, but nothing permenent, so she has a chance to improve herself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huckleberry Pie Posted September 30, 2008 Author Share Posted September 30, 2008 Just give a punishment, but nothing permenent, so she has a chance to improve herself. We did that. I banned her for misconduct and swearing, just to prevent any disruption and to cool her down, not to punish or torture her. Gave her a chance to reform and feel at home, but it seems as though she's in another temper fit again. If I ignore her at YM, and leave her, she might resort to making a sockpuppet and beg at me in tears, asking me to talk to her again. Now if you check out some of the recent posts in my forum, you'll find some derogatory stuff, such as this: I HATE SSC (well hate in i hate after all dis *beep* but still) And this: ITS STUPID I SAW IT EVERTIME ANGEL SAID TO C DA SITE tell me da turth u all do u really want me here and tell me da truth and its really hard to gain my friendship back !!! and also went off topic lolz...AND SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP i already no lots of u by heart now and i no how ima regain my friendsip back DOSNT MEAN EVERYONE And another one, as a reply to this thread: D for Dis is stupid I just wanted to settle things, although I'm not as good as that Hey Arnold guy at that. I removed or commented out the inappropriate posts, since I don't want any smut on the forums. I admit that some may call her a "sick and noob" person; even I can call her like that, although it's a bit too derogatory. It's just that she joined the forums, and we found out that she has a mood disorder of some sort, or at least suspected, based on her calm-angry cycle of behaviour. It's kinda' hard to convince her to kiss and make up, but what do you think? Oh, and can we arrange a conference with her so that we can work things out? A permanent ban on her won't do, and is my last resort... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NZ91 Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 I would hate to have bipolar. I have depression but it's not as bad as bipolar. She needs to get the help herself and see a psychologist for testing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huckleberry Pie Posted September 30, 2008 Author Share Posted September 30, 2008 I would hate to have bipolar. I have depression but it's not as bad as bipolar. She needs to get the help herself and see a psychologist for testing. Yeah, you have a point. I could have got in touch with her mum or dad or something... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 I've been diagnosed with bipolar, but I've been diagnosed with a lot of things. And yeah she needs meds obviously if she wants to keep her mood stable. Either that or she's a complete bitch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huckleberry Pie Posted September 30, 2008 Author Share Posted September 30, 2008 I've been diagnosed with bipolar, but I've been diagnosed with a lot of things. And yeah she needs meds obviously if she wants to keep her mood stable. Either that or she's a complete bitch. So it could also be likely that she has something else besides that? Or she's just acting too immaturely? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherman Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 IMO it's bound to be immaturity. Honestly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 I've been diagnosed with bipolar, but I've been diagnosed with a lot of things. And yeah she needs meds obviously if she wants to keep her mood stable. Either that or she's a complete bitch. So it could also be likely that she has something else besides that? Or she's just acting too immaturely? IMO it's bound to be immaturity. Honestly. Need to agree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huckleberry Pie Posted October 1, 2008 Author Share Posted October 1, 2008 I've been diagnosed with bipolar, but I've been diagnosed with a lot of things. And yeah she needs meds obviously if she wants to keep her mood stable. Either that or she's a complete bitch. So it could also be likely that she has something else besides that? Or she's just acting too immaturely? IMO it's bound to be immaturity. Honestly. Need to agree. Hmm, yeah, you have something of a point... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherman Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 To me she just sounds like one of those pissy "from da hood" wannabe's. She even types in ebonic, heh. Logical explanation, for sure. Or should I say FO' SHOOOOOOO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huckleberry Pie Posted October 1, 2008 Author Share Posted October 1, 2008 To me she just sounds like one of those pissy "from da hood" wannabe's. She even types in ebonic, heh. Logical explanation, for sure. Or should I say FO' SHOOOOOOO OG Loc, perhaps? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sherman Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 To me she just sounds like one of those pissy "from da hood" wannabe's. She even types in ebonic, heh. Logical explanation, for sure. Or should I say FO' SHOOOOOOO OG Loc, perhaps? OG Loc's ho. Oh god, that's worse xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NZ91 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Lol yeah it could just be immaturity, a psychologist would be able to tell if she has a mental disorder or not. If she's got a mental disorder it will be more evident in real life and her parents can take her if they see she has a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TM™ Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 She should either get help from a psychologist, if this problem persists, but if it's the immature thing, then just ban her, cause it does sound like she thinks it's a free world. You should check it out, then act immediately if it's the disorder, if not, then you shouldn't worry about a thing then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sour Grapes Posted October 3, 2008 Share Posted October 3, 2008 (edited) My opinion is that her parents are her foster parents, and her life in general is also unstable. I have bipolar disorder myself. So does my family; I don't want to label the world, but I know the girl in question. I was the one to suggest the possibility of bipolar, another member posted this during our staff discussion, and this was more-or-less agreed upon by all involved. Regardless, she is cooling down. She's young, as are most fans of the 2003 - 2009 Strawberry Shortcake. True, she acts like a spoiled brat, but she is fine if you work with her. It's us older members who have to "outreach" to her, so to speak, as she's somewhat frightened the girls closer to her own age. The point is that she'll be fine soon enough. We've been at this for about a week, and I personally think we're progressing well. Edited October 3, 2008 by Sour Grapes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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