But I assume that you teach your daughter good values at the same time, so that she won't wind up in some mischief, right?
Anyway, the person who claims GTA IV is crap is just over-reacting, but why would you give your children a copy of the game if they're not mature enough for it? I advise parents to be more better at taking care of your kids, instead of just blaming on some video game.
I remember a case of some woman buying her grandson a copy of GTA, then complained that it was inappropriate for her kid. No offense to the woman, but what can I say? Look at what the title and the box art says - Grand Theft Auto - that involves stealing, right? Then don't buy it if you find it offending. Simple logic, guys...