I realized last November, when gay marriage was banned in California, that homosexuals will never get equal treatment as long as there is ignorance about homosexuality. It's really sad for me to see people use "they chose to be gay, they don't need rights" as an excuse, when it's untrue for nearly the entire homosexual population. I don't have a problem with legistlation being passed that I am against as long as it was a popular opinion and in this case, it was. But when the majority of that popular opinion is just misinformed, it is a tragedy. The only problem is, there is no way to spread the truth to stubborn people. This doesn't necessarily affect me as I'm not gay, but just because I'm not affected doesn't mean I shouldn't be concerned. There was a big emphasis placed on Black voters causing the ban in CA. A reporter asked a Black woman who voted for the gay marriage ban how she could deny them of their rights when Black people fought for civil rights for the greater part of this century. Although definitely not a representative of the entire Black community, the woman responded with "I didn't choose to be Black - they chose to be gay, and if they don't like our laws then they should stop being gay!" And I have a feeling this is why most people are turned off by gay marriage - misinformation.