You read the second rule, so abide by it or just shut up.
Im not giving advices for fun, Im thinking me in Connor's position. And thats what I would have done. If you were in love, and the law forbid you to have sex, meet eachother or whatever, would you obey it? It's idiotic.
I can't see how it goes off the topic, okay, maybe the head topic, but now Connor's problems with the law was a subline, which we discussed with all the right of it.
And, "fuck the hell out of her", Im sorry, my choice of words can be on the same level as a caveman sometimes, but It forwarded my opinion, in a straight way.
Short note even shorter: I said what I thought he would do.