Why am I not surprised to find Sky here.....
The first few times w/ anybody new are usually awkward at best.
Even when you're well experienced, this is someone new. You have to learn your way around so to say, what like & don't like.
Where they're sensitive as opposed to ticklish, what they're into, etc.
The "one night stand" is pretty hollow, it's best with someone you really care about. Not sayin' you have to be married, just
don't waste yourself on shallow crap.
Put a little thought into what comes next. What if the condom breaks/pill doesn't work (I'm living proof the pill doesn't always
work & it hasn't changed much since the '60s)? Are you ready for the responsibility that could come from this? That's how I
wound up raising a 2-year-old grandson. Just put a little thought into it, that's all.
I'm not gonna' bore you w/ STDs, the public schools have fubar'd that one enough.
I hated GYM.