Unless you friend loves ya and you love her.
Well, from experience, the submissive side is just as fun ^.^. Well, being a guy, it's slightly easier for me to be the dominant one. But I still like occassionally being the one tied up
I don't rape people who I don't love. Submission, masochism, sadism, pain, torture, bondage, etc..... It's all a part of something that goes way deeper than pleasure. It's about folding over to the one you love, trusting them, showing them the pain you'll actually go through for them. Well, and the fact that it's a turn on, and it is pretty damn hot..... Y'know....
Well, if said friend is into it, both the rape and the whole just being friends thing, more power to you. Personally I'm not into friends with benefits anymore, but I live and let live.
Ok.I think I know what you mean.