rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 @ People Who think they have no social LifeI dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round. Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Harry Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 I have a good social life, I have a few good friends, and some fun friends, and a lovely gf. We've been together for like, 9 months and thats lots for a 13 year old (me) and a 14 year old (her) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azn Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 I have a good social life, I have a few good friends, and some fun friends, and a lovely gf. We've been together for like, 9 months and thats lots for a 13 year old (me) and a 14 year old (her) Vasco you're where I want to be in the not to present future. Except I'm 14. Rem: Best to lighten up your mood. I do and the days go by a lot better. Sure I have my enemies in school but that's what friends are for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 I'd lighten up my mood IF I COULD. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_anxiety Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Harry Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 @Rainbow: Ah well, find yourself a good girl, someone who can listen, don't go for looks., go for someone who can listen, someone who cares, oh but if she is hot, just win And uhh, how do ya know I'm called Vasco? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azn Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 @Rainbow: Ah well, find yourself a good girl, someone who can listen, don't go for looks., go for someone who can listen, someone who cares, oh but if she is hot, just win And uhh, how do ya know I'm called Vasco? I did. There's just this huge silence in between :S Oh and I think it was Thomas who told me on GTAN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Harry Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 OMG U BEENZ STALKING ON ME!!!! joke Now we should get back on topic really! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Rem, remember that problem you have is psychological so if you work really hard you can get passed it. You could try some sort of therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red_91 Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 @ People Who think they have no social LifeI dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round. Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems. Your right I dont know how you feel, but all I am trying to say is people with these sort of problems should at least make an effort to have a social life etc. I know your going to say you have tried but keep on trying. Social interaction is important, if you cant socialise you pretty much cant do any job in the world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Lol, make an effort? You still don't get that that's actually impossible for some people? If just anything goes a little off at school, I can just sit there and stare at a wall all day having no contact with people. That makes people think I'm some kind of a retard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 How can it be impossible? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Because it is, that's the way some peoples minds work. Some people can do it, but feel very uncomfortable, some people can't do anything, because it's impossible for their minds to allow it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Well, I understand your point of view but I believe that if you have a strong power of will then you can overcome those dificulties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 But some people don't... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty Harry Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Yea if some people can't stop saying that it's impossible it just gets harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 Here we go... Rem, remember that problem you have is psychological so if you work really hard you can get passed it.You could try some sort of therapy. You don't think I have? @ People Who think they have no social LifeI dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round. Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems. Your right I dont know how you feel, but all I am trying to say is people with these sort of problems should at least make an effort to have a social life etc. I know your going to say you have tried but keep on trying. Social interaction is important, if you cant socialise you pretty much cant do any job in the world. Make an effort? Uhm, yeah, what do you think I do? If I didn't make an effort I wouldn't be discussing this. Lol, make an effort? You still don't get that that's actually impossible for some people?If just anything goes a little off at school, I can just sit there and stare at a wall all day having no contact with people. That makes people think I'm some kind of a retard. How can it be impossible? It's not IMPOSSIBLE but feels like it's impossible to overcome. It actually NEVER goes away, you have to deal with it. Imagine going you're whole life DEALING with it. Because it is, that's the way some peoples minds work. Some people can do it, but feel very uncomfortable, some people can't do anything, because it's impossible for their minds to allow it. Yeah, it really NEVER goes away, it's an anxiety. They don't go away and you just need to deal with it. Well, I understand your point of view but I believe that if you have a strong power of will then you can overcome those dificulties. Sure, but when it's severe it's ridiculous how hard it is to overcome this shit. It never is fully overcome, in fact it never is overcome at all, you just deal with it, like I said before. I haven't got there yet obviously. But some people don't... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Yea, well I've managed to become a bit more social now, on the outside it'll look fine, but on the inside it's just horrible, thinking what will happen next, what people think of you, are you behaving right or not, all that stuff. It isn't that nice, and some people can't cope with it, so they avoid it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 Exactly, it feels so fucking uncomfortable you just don't want to deal with it. It doesn't stop either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 Some people probably think I'm grumpy or ignorant, and that really fucks it up when I pluck up the courage to try and overcome it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 NO FUCKING SHIT FUCKING ASSHOLES CALL ME WEIRD AND SHIT WHEN I TRY AND INTERACT, AND THEY KNOW I HAVE A PROBLEM WTF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas. Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 NO FUCKING SHITFUCKING ASSHOLES CALL ME WEIRD AND SHIT WHEN I TRY AND INTERACT, AND THEY KNOW I HAVE A PROBLEM WTF Yeah that's the same with me. People throw insults at me left, right and center. I can't believe people have the nerve to turn around to people and say "OMG u r so gay" it is unbelievable, even when it is not true they still say it. I have nothing wrong with homophobic people but they do, they are f*cking ignorant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 It doesn't help that I'm autistic either... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivan Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 It doesn't help that I'm autistic either... But is it a minor autism or a severe one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connor Posted May 10, 2008 Share Posted May 10, 2008 I've been diagnosed with minor autistic spectrum disorders. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockstarrem Posted May 10, 2008 Author Share Posted May 10, 2008 NO FUCKING SHITFUCKING ASSHOLES CALL ME WEIRD AND SHIT WHEN I TRY AND INTERACT, AND THEY KNOW I HAVE A PROBLEM WTF Yeah that's the same with me. People throw insults at me left, right and center. I can't believe people have the nerve to turn around to people and say "OMG u r so gay" it is unbelievable, even when it is not true they still say it. I have nothing wrong with homophobic people but they do, they are f*cking ignorant. Homophobic or homosexual people? And when they say gay they don't mean it literally... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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