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I believe you said "But I don't want to give you my info. Please give me permissions, you have to, I have a right to have themes".
You can select a theme from the bottom-left corner.
We have 31,000 members, they can't ALL have a theme each. That would take up too much space, make the website too slow, and cause a lot of problems.
We prefer to just have one theme for this forum, because then we know that everything works properly and looks fine. If we had lots of different skins, that would be impossible.
If we let all 31,000 members have admin access, this forum would get deleted within 2 minutes. Obviously we can't let that happen, so we restrict admin access to trusted, long-term forum staff.
Please don't feel the trolls.