Love & Relationships Thread

[Connor]

I fucking hate the laws, but I guess if I want to still be able to see my girlfriend, I guess I should obey..

[Godfather]

Just fuck the hell out of her, it's not like the CIA is spying on you, and your parents wouldn't turn anyone of you in, probably

[Gycu]

Fuck the laws if you like the girl/boy and he/she likes you ...

[Connor]

Yea, but if I fuck the law, I'll never see her for ages..

[Godfather]

WHY?!

[MrLlamaLlama]

Godfather, some people have a sense of morality. Good advice isn't 'fuck the hell out of her'.

That's a stupid, stupid thing to suggest. Joking or not, it completely goes against the point of the topic. To HELP people. Giving people 'advice' which you think is just funny won't get anyone anywhere. It's a wonder Connor actually listened to you. Yes, he's a potentially impressionable thirteen year old, but that doesn't mean you can exploit that and give him random, shit ass 'advice' for the fun of it.

Also, to quote the first post.

I just got this idea because it seems all of us dudes have girl problems and what not, so I made this. I only have three rules.

1. Think me up a better name.

2. No stupid things, I will kick you out of the topic and warn you

3. Stupid things includes advice.

GO!

You read the second rule, so abide by it or just shut up.

[Godfather]

Godfather, some people have a sense of morality. Good advice isn't 'fuck the hell out of her'.

That's a stupid, stupid thing to suggest. Joking or not, it completely goes against the point of the topic. To HELP people. Giving people 'advice' which you think is just funny won't get anyone anywhere. It's a wonder Connor actually listened to you. Yes, he's a potentially impressionable thirteen year old, but that doesn't mean you can exploit that and give him random, shit ass 'advice' for the fun of it.

Also, to quote the first post.

I just got this idea because it seems all of us dudes have girl problems and what not, so I made this. I only have three rules.

1. Think me up a better name.

2. No stupid things, I will kick you out of the topic and warn you

3. Stupid things includes advice.

GO!

You read the second rule, so abide by it or just shut up.

Im not giving advices for fun, Im thinking me in Connor's position. And thats what I would have done. If you were in love, and the law forbid you to have sex, meet eachother or whatever, would you obey it? It's idiotic.

I can't see how it goes off the topic, okay, maybe the head topic, but now Connor's problems with the law was a subline, which we discussed with all the right of it.

And, "fuck the hell out of her", Im sorry, my choice of words can be on the same level as a caveman sometimes, but It forwarded my opinion, in a straight way.

Short note even shorter: I said what I thought he would do.

[Connor]

I'd fuck the hell out of her any day, just I know if someone knew that, all hell would break lose, ect...

[MrLlamaLlama]

But, obviously, Connor is concerned of the implications of having sex at such a young age...

You should give advice, ADVISING Connor what to do in his situation, not how you'd deal with it, considering your morals and values, etc, etc.

And thats what I would have done. If you were in love, and the law forbid you to have sex, meet eachother or whatever, would you obey it? It's idiotic.

Admittedly no, i wouldn't / haven't and all the rest of it. But my morals and values aren't as strong as Connor's maybe.

Just be considerate about how other people feel, instead of wading in and voicing what you would do.

You should give advice, ADVISING Connor what to do in his situation, not how you'd deal with it, considering your morals and values, etc, etc.

Damn, Connor posted before me.

Tip number 1, is pretty much, don't let anyone find out.

[Nate10]

Just fuck the hell out of her, it's not like the CIA is spying on you, and your parents wouldn't turn anyone of you in, probably

B a h a.

[K9 Krew]

Just fuck the hell out of her, it's not like the CIA is spying on you, and your parents wouldn't turn anyone of you in, probably

That's funny coming from someone who is most likely a virgin.

[osiris.]

I would venture to say 95% of the people here are virgins.

[Nate10]

Lol that's pretty high but yeah, lots of our members are pretty damn young[including me]..

[Slayer]

She keeps telling me she wants it... but shes 14!

Pfff dude, you're lucky. I say go for it, better to have sex at 14 than having a gf at 18 who won't let you (there are some ). Just use a condom and you'll be fine.

[draftermatt]

Folks, condoms work, but not all the time. You want to have sex? Do some research on contraceptives. Talk to your doctor (who by law cannot talk to your parents in most places), talk to the pharmacist.

If you are 15 and she's 15 make sure you check the age of consent laws. What if her parents catch you at it and then throw you in jail for statutory rape?

I waited till I was 18 and put of high school before I had sex, and it was with someone I had been with for over a year and a half (and we are now married and together 7 years). Sex is not a bad thing, and I'm not saying you have to wait till you're married, but learn how to protect yourself and her or you'll regret it.

And as far as "fucking the shit" out of some girl you supposedly care about, why would you do that? Your first time (if it's with someone you care about) shouldn't be "hurry and and come so we can see what all the fuss is about" )If that's all you care about try mutual masturbation.) It should be special, with someone you care about.

[Pandora]

So finally I come to this topic.

Ok, as good as I am just with guys, I suck with girls.

I've tried treating them like guys and that does NOT help. Well, slightly actually. But still.

Somehow the girls see me as some very harsh person.. Mainly because I'm not a socialist, but a conservative/liberal and don't hide it.

Other then that, I never know what the hell to talk about when I finally do talk with some girl (that I don't hate). Talking about games/computers/politics ect. didn't really work.

So yeah, as you can see I pretty much suck.. So.. uh.. advise?

[Charger]

So finally I come to this topic.

Ok, as good as I am just with guys, I suck with girls.

I've tried treating them like guys and that does NOT help. Well, slightly actually. But still.

Somehow the girls see me as some very harsh person.. Mainly because I'm not a socialist, but a conservative/liberal and don't hide it.

Other then that, I never know what the hell to talk about when I finally do talk with some girl (that I don't hate). Talking about games/computers/politics ect. didn't really work.

So yeah, as you can see I pretty much suck.. So.. uh.. advise?

Talk about their day, there interest, whats there plans for the weekends, music, etc. If your with a girl that likes to have a conversation then your ok, but there are some girls out there, that expect you to do everything.... That will be much harder, and I don't go for that.

Talking about games to a girl might not work, usually avoid that, and that politic stuff...

Edited January 3, 2008 by Charger

[TheGunslinger]

So finally I come to this topic.

Ok, as good as I am just with guys, I suck with girls.

I've tried treating them like guys and that does NOT help. Well, slightly actually. But still.

Somehow the girls see me as some very harsh person.. Mainly because I'm not a socialist, but a conservative/liberal and don't hide it.

Other then that, I never know what the hell to talk about when I finally do talk with some girl (that I don't hate). Talking about games/computers/politics ect. didn't really work.

So yeah, as you can see I pretty much suck.. So.. uh.. advise?

just make them laugh, that really does work better than anything.

[Sherman]

So finally I come to this topic.

Ok, as good as I am just with guys, I suck with girls.

I've tried treating them like guys and that does NOT help. Well, slightly actually. But still.

Somehow the girls see me as some very harsh person.. Mainly because I'm not a socialist, but a conservative/liberal and don't hide it.

Other then that, I never know what the hell to talk about when I finally do talk with some girl (that I don't hate). Talking about games/computers/politics ect. didn't really work.

So yeah, as you can see I pretty much suck.. So.. uh.. advise?

You said you tried treating them like guys, you're trying too hard. Just chill and talk, man. I'm not gonna say you can HAVE anyone you want, because you really can't.

[Raymond]

the girls just have been censored

anyhow i had maked the girls laugh at the time

[YellowJacket]

Having sex when you're basically still a kid is so stupid. If two people love each other, they'll wait until they are older and mature enough to do it. Condoms and birth control don't always work like they should and I'd hate to see more kids become friggin parents. You can't handle having a kid at that age and can't support it.

I wish people would respect each other and just sit down and think before they do stupid things. You don't have to have sex to prove you love each other so there is no rush.

[TM™]

You have a point there, but young couples never think, they just do it, which I find rather dumb. Real Relationships actually do think about it, but sometimes it's never been brought to their attention. In the UK, there's lot's of teenagers having Kids and their like 15-16 and they usually don't care for their kids which is just wrong. But it was their fault for having sex.

It's usually what lot's of people do nowadays from what I see. It sometimes comes on news, and usually people question to them "If you didn't want a baby, why did you have sex?" and that usually makes the young mother feel like she got owned, because she can't even think of a good reason, and can't justify it either. So they knew it, and they have to face it.

It's right not to be a couple at a young age, but it really affects them, not us. So we can't control them. But usually young couples have sex right after they've drunk lots of alcohol, that's usually the case But from what I see, 15-16 year old's are mostly aimed at, so why are even drinking alcoholic beverages? But there's many reasons for why they have sex.

[Ivan]

With girls I'm very unlucky, I only meet stupid and ugly girls there's one that is intelligent and a bit funny and wants to be my girlfriend but I don't know. So in the end I'm very unlucky.

[Connor]

Having sex when you're basically still a kid is so stupid. If two people love each other, they'll wait until they are older and mature enough to do it. Condoms and birth control don't always work like they should and I'd hate to see more kids become friggin parents. You can't handle having a kid at that age and can't support it.

I wish people would respect each other and just sit down and think before they do stupid things. You don't have to have sex to prove you love each other so there is no rush.

Exactly, just having sex at a young age is proving that you don't actually love you partner, if you actually loved your partner, you would wait, as you wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them while they're still young.

[osiris.]

Having sex at a young age does not prove that you don't love your partner.

It's based on mutual consent and that's it.